Thing I don’t get is not ONCE have they told my why they need to talk to me. Only thing they have given me are: “something urgent has come up”, “need your time”, “we want to tell you about assembly”, “you have not been to meetings”, “a serous matter has come to our attention”. I guess I feel that if they have not even had the decency to tell me what I am being charged with I don’t owe them anything.
Hoggieman....."ask sincerely" in the e-mail if he can give you "more details" as to what he wants to talk about. Afterwards worded documentation to discontinue harassment would be good. I also like the suggestion to get restraining order to prevent unwelcome visits by the elders.
I always wanted to "just leave them alone" the ones who left. Some elders are very vindictive. I think it gives them a sense of power & authority to hunt these ones down and threaden them with DF'ing. Also, in a sick way I think some of them love to hear all the dirt.
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